hi,
seems you run out of resources.
You run 20 BG processes and freebsd will not allow you to start a new one.
sparky 24978 0.0 1.0 13676 2768 ? S Sep27 5:12 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 25829 0.0 1.1 13696 3004 ? S Sep27 5:35 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 26046 0.0 1.1 13692 2912 ? S Sep27 5:21 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 26480 0.0 1.1 13680 2924 ? S Sep27 4:41 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 26678 0.0 1.1 13692 2968 ? S Sep27 5:20 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 26992 0.0 1.1 13528 2920 ? S Sep27 5:56 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 27142 0.0 1.3 13544 3388 ? S Sep27 5:54 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 27401 0.0 1.0 13528 2740 ? S Sep27 5:37 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 28057 0.0 1.0 13688 2784 ? S Sep27 5:14 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 28572 0.0 1.1 13692 3028 ? S Sep27 5:55 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 29004 0.0 1.0 13684 2764 ? S Sep27 5:44 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 29210 0.0 1.1 13692 2992 ? S Sep27 5:29 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 29398 0.0 1.1 13680 3008 ? S Sep27 5:56 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 30175 0.0 1.1 13684 3060 ? S Sep27 6:02 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 27462 0.0 1.4 13528 3744 ? S 17:12 0:05 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 27688 0.0 1.4 13528 3752 ? S 17:17 0:06 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 28130 0.0 1.5 13548 3888 ? S 17:22 0:05 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 30370 0.0 1.4 13528 3740 ? S 18:12 0:04 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
sparky 30588 0.0 1.4 13528 3744 ? S 18:17 0:05 ./eggdrop amberley.conf
I commeneted out the following line from your crontab
0,5,10,15,20,25,30,35,40,45,50,55 * * * * /home/e/eggdrop//Amberley.botchk >/dev/null 2>&1
and killed some of your existing processes - that will allow you to log in and resolve your problem on your own.