K got reply, the seller is a very nice guy..
He sent another stick, free of charge.
For all it matters, i think he made a simple mistake and sent only one instead of two [he's a power seller, over 50 ships a week], and i dropped the whole *stolen* story.
[which made no sense anyway, why would someone steal one stick and not the other?]
I should have the second one in 10~12days, sorry folks
BTW
this goes out to everyone who complains about server being slow at night;
at exactly 4am [GMT+2+DST] the server fires up all of the cron jobs.
Which includes scanning all security files and looking for bad guys [to the dude who uploaded the slapper worm and tried to run it from CGI, you are an idiot], scanning system for changed files, root kits, viruses, and compiling webalizer pages.
This whole action takes about 10~20 minutes.
Please, if you see that the server is horribly slow at those times, don't email me, it's routine!